Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Coaching for Men
Sexually unfulfilled? Can’t find love? Relationship in a ditch? Friendships on the decline? Support is a click away…
Meet Fudo
Meet Fudo…
…and discover if Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Coaching for Men is for you?
If you are struggling to find meaningful romantic and sexual connections, help is here. Together we will identify the hidden blocks and define your roadmap toward love, sex and connection.
Noteworthy praise from happy clients...
"This man has helped me more than I can put into words! I'm truly grateful for Fudo coming into my life and pulling me out of the dark place I was living." — Robert F., Guerneville, CA
“My work with Fudo has been some of the most powerful work I have ever done in my life. Prior to our work, I had become so – performative – in my sexuality – so distanced from myself. My sexuality had become robotic. I had lost – the joy of it. Until Fudo and I began working, I hadn’t even begun to think about all the ways that separation impacted so many areas of my life. I just knew “something was missing” – something vital. We speak often these days about “toxic masculinity” – as we should. But what gets lost often in that conversation is “positive masculinity” – what it is – and how to access it… and the powerful possibilities that come from authentic re-connection to our sexuality as men – and particularly as a gay man and all the baggage and shame that came along with that.
Fudo’s work on sexuality – on your specific erotic world – and the mind/body connection is not “just about sex” – it is so much more than that. His technique is mindful, specific and deliberate and pulls from a variety of psychological and philosophic traditions. This is true therapy - and if any of what I said here resonates for you – I can’t encourage you enough to reach out to him.” — John, San Miguel de Allende, Mexico
Real intimacy requires real vulnerability.
Let’s practice.
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Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Coaching
Achieving our sexual, romantic & relational desires can be a source of anguish & isolation. Lord knows, I've been there. Let me show you how I turned my life around. We will transform limiting belief systems that prohibit true love, ecstatic sex and meaningful connections. The pandemic will end eventually but habituated blocks will endure without focused, internal housecleaning. A free consultation awaits!
Free Daily Online Meditation
Founded March 2020 as a response to the Covid lockdown, the Planetary Paws Meditation Group has come together to calm our nerves and practice mindfulness. Seven days a week, at 9am PST (that’s 10am in central and eastern Mexico), you are invited to join our intrepid group of intergenerational humans for 30 minutes of guided meditation, warmhearted dialogue & community building. Beginners and advanced meditators welcome, drop-ins too.
Craving intimacy, love and hot sex? Depressed by the often lonely and frustrating hunt? Ready to change the narrative?
√ Intimacy coaching
√ Gay sex coaching
√ Relationship coaching for men
Let Fudo’s all-in-one, compassionate support be your game changer.
Now that Covid seems over, where has it left you?
Thoughts on Moving into Connection After Our Time of Isolation
Perhaps it goes without saying, but damn, what a challenging time it was.
The pandemic throttled many of us.
If we already struggled with feelings of isolation and loneliness, those years were most likely a descent into despair.
While some used the time to reconsider choices and make life changes, some are still processing what happened.
If you are not getting your romantic, sexual and relational needs met, my sincere hope is that you are not languishing in hopelessness and disconnection.
As a Sex, Intimacy & Relationship Coach, I have been helping my clients push aside the barriers to finding fulfillment. Together, we practice vulnerability as the essential path toward intimacy. We track self-judgment and shame — the biggest impediments toward manifesting our erotic desires and relational dreams. We learn to own our magnificence and perceived imperfections and come to realize they are quite often one and the same.
If we are stuck in toxic self-judgement and not getting the loving support we deserve, help is here.
I view myself as a gardener of souls. A journey mate. A wing man. My passion is helping clients jettison corrosive belief systems and behaviors that have left them feeling separate and disconnected from themselves and others while simultaneously manifesting experiences that literally change the narratives of their lives.
Time and time again, I have had the pleasure of watching my clients grow beyond their limitations. They become their best, most-empowered selves, owning desire and getting their romantic and sexual needs fulfilled!
Change can be hard — especially when we go it alone. Fortunately, compassionate coaches are available.
If you're struggling to find intimacy and connection, I strongly encourage working with a coach — one that feels right for you. Maybe it will be me. Maybe someone else. It doesn't really matter. Just find the support required to start thriving during this period of re-connection.
I believe all the answers required to find love, intimacy and phenomenal sex reside within us. I believe it is our birthright. I can help guide you to them — with skills that will serve for a lifetime.
Stay strong, stay safe, stay connected!
— With love and gratitude, Fudo